Laugh Your Way to a Better Marriage

Christian marriages fail at the same rate as non-christian marriages.  In fact, as Tim Jennings’ previous lectures (see below) pointed out, if you are a male you are 2.5-4x more likely to be violently abused in a Christian home than in a non-christian home.  A possible reason proposed by Tim Jennings was our view of God, however I believe another major factor is the refusing to admit the natural differences between a typical male and female.

Now, naturally, there are outliers – people who don’t fit the stereotypes, however in the majority of cases, the differences between men and women are quite clear.  The downside of these differences is, it is next to impossible for men and women to interact, coexist and communicate without some major misunderstandings and frustrations.  That said, there is hope.  If your marriage is failing or struggling, maybe it is time to laugh your way to a better marriage.  The following video series is a quite irreverent, but accurate view of marriage, and the differences between the typical male and female.  The speaker is a Christian pastor, who thought there was a better way to broach this very sensitive subject.  I believe he strikes a great balance for this topic, and covers issues that normally would have both sides screaming at each other, but instead, both sides will be rolling on the floor laughing at the truth of what he is saying.

As a person who has a very happy marriage, not by luck, but rather by spending time to understand my wife, and help her to understand me, I can say his methods have been understood and put in my practice a number of times in my marriage and were a God send.  I personally learnt some of this from “why men don’t listen and women can’t read maps”, but he adds to that with some very solid practical ways to understand and improve your relationship.  Plus, it is so funny!!  Even after years of knowing much of what he has to say, it is good to see some of the mistakes I have been making over the years, and methods me and my wife can use to improve our marriage.

The content is of an adult nature, though it is in no way crude, and by worldly standards is very tame (no swearing).  Personally I wouldn’t recommend it for children under the age of 15.  They would find it funny, but it probably wouldn’t be a great practical value, and some of the themes are of a sexual nature (obviously!).  I know parents who have shown it to their 7 yo without issue though, so parent’s should watch one and see where they stand.  Either way, I believe this is an important topic and could make the difference between a “gauling yoke” or “marital bliss”.


Doug Bachelor’s Thoughts on Pope’s visit to the US in September 2015

Doug Bachelor gives a run down of the Pope’s visit to the US in the next few weeks, and what it is all about.

If you still don’t understand the significance of the pope in Biblical Prophecy, it is well worth checking out this high quality documentary produced by Doug Bachelor (well worth the watch) Revelation – The Bride, The Beast & Babylon (thank you to them for releasing it for free for a limited time):

Interesting abc tv in the US:

Moody Science Classics – sermons from science

This is the full collection of the “sermons from science” series that showed on US TV back in the 60-70s.  This is the stuff that made me love science, and my kids are always excited to watch them.  Even though the quality is bad, don’t let that fool you, the message is outstanding.

If you like science (or even if you don’t), these will bring you closer to our creator God, and maybe you will learn something at the same time :)
There are a lot of videos in the list, all are good, but my favourite is “Ultimate Adventure“.  My kids favourites are “Experience with an Eel” and the Ultimate Adventure.  They are all great though.

Food as Medicine – Nutrition Facts 2015 Update

Michael Greger MD, searches through all the nutrition articles and posts the most relevant and interesting findings on his website daily, in short, witty and informative videos.  Once a year he compiles the best of the best findings, and presents the information at a conference.

This is the latest yearly update “food as Medicine”, shows all the most significant studies of 2015/2014, on how to stay healthy.  Significantly, he covers omega 3s and the importance of DHA in your diet (a spoiler, DHA is available in fish free versions – google “ovega 3s”).  Well worth a watch… very important for anyone who wants to live a long, healthy life.


Great Spiritual Apps for Android / Apple / Windows Phone

Recently on android there have been a lot of great apps come out for the Sabbath School, the Hymnal and recently EGW.  So here is a list of my favorite apps at the moment and why.  I have added other OS apps where they existed.

BibleTecarta Bible (Android / Apple) – Has strongs links for a small extra cost… very easy to highlight.  Has account so you can sync all your highlights and notes (incase you break or lose your phone like I have so many times… even if you change between android or apple).  I find this app way faster than any other app out there.

sabbath schoolSDA adult sabbath school app (Android apple).  No matter which denomination you are, there are lots of blessings to be had from this.  For those who haven’t done a sabbath school before, this is like a daily reading which focuses on a particular aspect of bible truth.  This quarter is all on being a missionary.  This is a very simple and clear layout that is very fast to navigate. My favorite part of this app is you can listen to a high quality recording of the days lesson (you will be prompted to install another app which fully integrates into this app so you can read along), and also you can click the bible links to read the context (also prompts install of another app which fully integrates).

sda hymnalSDA hymnal (words only, android only, though there are plenty of different hymnal apps out there for other platforms).  Has hymns from both the 1980s hymnal, and the 1940s.  Has options to favorite and rate hymns.  Very nice layout.


EGW WritingsEGW Writings v2 (Windows Phone/8.1/10, Apple, Android).  Awesome app with heaps of audiobooks, and quite good layout and search function.  Also contains thousands of books from the SDA pioneer writers.  Amazing resource.  On android it has an outstanding text to speech option (prompts for install, can be finicky to get going, but great when you do) – I have never heard a more natural text to speech voice.  Works great on windows PC too (all the audiobooks there) – requires windows apps store (windows 8 or higher)

Notable mentions: – (android, apple) heaps of free audiobibles (I generally listen to KJV dramatized)
Alexander Scourby KJV – (android, apple) good app, but very expensive
Audible (android, apple, windows phone) I listen to many audiobooks on this, all books cost money though… this is a general store, Case for Grace, Great Controversy and Desire of Ages are some of my favorite spiritual books on there.
Audioverse (android, apple, windows phone) – huge amount of mp3 sermons
SDA Hymnal – (has notes for ipad)

If you have any other apps you use, feel free to add a comment.

The God Shaped Brain

According to a recent study in the US, a Christian wife is 2-4 times more likely to abuse her husband than a non-christian wife.  Why?  This series gives the answer, and the solution.
This is a quality recording of the series “the God Shaped Brain” by Tim Jennings.  I posted the same series Tim did in Australia, but this one is far better quality.  If you haven’t watched this series (or even if you have) this is very worth the watch and re-watch (there is a huge amount of info in it).  It covers how if we have a false understanding of God, we can quite literally destroy our minds, our relationships, and possibly our salvation (“I never knew you”).

And for a more in depth version of the same talk: